True love does not come from a place of "need". IT does not depend on a person, place or thing. True love comes from your core, which is your heart. Your true nature is INFINITE BLISS, everything is BOUND by love. Which means everything happens BECAUSE of love. Everything contains love or it wouldnt exist. Of course, we have to know true love OF and FOR ourselves before we can have it for others or even begin to know or understand and experience Infinite Bliss. You cannot have one without the other, it is IMPOSSIBLE.
This KNOWING comes from knowing oneself and living true to oneself. It never comes from outside of us, b/c is it our TRUE NATURE it is one with us always, it is who we are, it comes from WITHIN. As you live true to yourself you are shifting your entire life to a new frequency, you are BEING who you are meant to be - a joyful, loving person in harmony with yourself and with others.
There is no judgement at this level of living. There is peace, inspiration and constant growth. There is harmony and understanding and the experience that The Universe ALWAYS provides, guides and protects. OR to put it another way; "what YOU will allow is what will continue." What you support is what you will experience. You are and always have been in control of your life. But it takes an awareness to live at this level. You have to KNOW yourself 100%. And that has NOTHING to do with what is going on around you, meaning; it does NOT depend on your environment. It depends on YOU. Wherever you are. Whoever you are. Wherever you live. Whatever your life experience has been. You can live and experience a non-judgmental life of Unconditional Love.
This is where healing begins. That's all healing really is. It is living with the awareness through the light within you, the light you are ONE with at all times. You live in WHOLENESS which means you live with the realization that you are already WHOLE and COMPLETE. You are not "missing" anything. You are not "broken". This is the light that diffuses darkness. This is the light that comes from your heart which illuminates your mind, your world and your entire life. It helps you SEE into those dark corners of your mind that you never bothered to peer into before. You come to realize that YOU are the creator of your life, and the cause of your Self. It is like telling other people, "Look, if you want a relationship with me, you have to come from a space of love and honesty or dont come at all." Some call this "transparency" or "Authentic Self". Rather than coming from the space of hating, blaming, controlling, fearing and projecting our insecurities, which most people function from b/c they are taught to believe that to have security in this world is to have money as power, or some other physical form, such as a house, car or a person to bring this security TO THEM. They sacrifice who they are even if that means to sacrifice their dreams, their happiness and their fullfillment.
Fullfillment never comes from outside of ourselves, fullfillment always comes from living true to ourselves. Whether we own certain things or not.
How many people do not live up to their full potential b/c of insecurity or FEAR of being "wrong" or rather, what if their fears are "right"? (Yikes! What if I am not lovable? What if i am "not good enough"? Let's not look within and get to know who we are, b/c what if my fears are TRUE? Then that would be the end of me wouldn't it? I wouldn't possibly be able to go on!) This IRRATIONAL fear is what stops people from growing into their full potential and experiencing the very love that they are and always have been. The peace and freedom their very soul is crying out for.) This is the darkness that controls some people's lives. The very thing your searching for is right under your nose. Yet we are too busy searching outside of ourselves for acceptance, approval and everything else, b/c we are taught it comes from outside of us. It never does. And the fears are NEVER true. But you have to look within yourself to KNOW that.
How many people sacrifice their happiness b/c they think they need to live up to someone else's idea of who they themselves should or shouldn't be?
These people are not happy with themselves. These people are lying to themselves and putting on an ego mask of security, which is a FALSE ILLUSION. They are saying: "Look at me, I have all the trappings of success, therefore, according to societal standards, which of course, we all need to live up to, i am successful." From the outside, they seem to have it all. BUT on the inside, they are EMPTY and MISERABLE. They dont have true friends. They have dysfunctional relationships. They lie to themselves and they lie to each other. They manipulate emotionally and they settle for less. They are holding on to their fears in order to maintain the illusion of happiness and security. AND Depending on how much of themselves they are sacrificing, they are wearing themselves out and experiencing an equal amount of PAIN, STRUGGLE and SUFFERING in their lives.
This does not mean that you CANNOT have BOTH material and spiritual success. This only means that you are DEPENDING on THINGS or PEOPLE to BRING you your fullfillment. Which is NOT fullfilling you b/c fullfillment comes from WITHIN. Of course you can have BOTH. You should have both, IF that is what you want. You shouldn't have to sacrifice your happiness for anything or anyone, ever. Unless of course, you are HAPPY without material possessions, then THAT is what is true for YOU. The difference depends on who YOU are. There is no "right and wrong" here. There is no judgement in Unconditional Love. It is UNCONDITIONAL each and every time. There is Only fullfillment. This is true for everyone. Each and every time.
The more you allow yourself to live true to your heart, the more the pain dissipates. The more free-er & happier your life becomes.
It is not up to anyone else to tell you who you are or what to do. It is up to YOU to know who you are and live true to that.
It is up to you to ALLOW yourself to CHOOSE what it is YOU PREFER. This is how we allow ourselves and others to live in peace and freedom.
By setting the example and living true to your heart, others who come in contact with you will either have to change to meet you at your level (meaning; they will also have to be OK with who you are) OR they will no longer be a part of your experience. And that is OK, b/c whatever you lose is ALWAYS replaced with something of equal value or you come to learn that you really did not need it to begin with and will be just fine without it. As each person lives in peace with themselves, their whole world will also shift to one of a higher vibratory level. Eventually the energy of unconditional love will get so strong that the scales will TIP to FULL AWAKENING which is INFINITE BLISS and the awareness of Oneness for ALL THAT IS. And THAT is where we are heading.
You can experience this individually and willingly, through meditation. OR WILLINGLY by living from you heart, which will be a journey of continuously knowing and learning more and more about yourself, which then produces more freedom and joy OR you can experience this through MORE DRAMA. If you are not in tuned to a higher frequency, AND also as you are BECOMING more in tune with it, it can be experienced in a chaotic fashion, at first. (Depending on your own personal situation; Sometimes we have to pull some "bad weeds" from our lives, sometimes the "bad weeds" do not want to leave so easily b/c there is attachment based on false security!) Because we are ALL connected, whether we have this awareness or not, everyone is experiencing this in their own unique way.
You don't have to worry about what others are doing or not doing. You have no way of controlling other people anyway. We can offer each other, support, encouragement and guidance which is aimed towards more harmonious growth, through love, compassion and kindness. But NEVER will this happen through control or co-ersion. Control and co-ersion are the very opposite experience of Unconditional Love.
Control is based on Illusion of power. The only control anyone ever has over anyone else depends on how much control the other person is willing to GIVE away or not. That is why it is an ILLUSION. If you don't know your own power, which is love, if you don't know yourself, you don't SEE how you are giving it away to other people and ALLOWING them to control you. You can take back your power at anytime you want. It does not depend on what anyone else is doing, or not doing, it only depends on what YOU yourself are doing. We are not responsible for others happiness, you are only responsible for your own happiness, b/c remember, happiness comes from WITHIN. It is not GIVEN to you by someone else. It is given to you by YOU. Not to mention, that trying to solve a problem of lack of freedom or peace, by trying to control or co-erse others is only perpetuating the same energy that caused the problem to begin with in the first place! You can choose to stop giving away your power and live from your true nature, or live from your heart AT ANYTIME you like. It is entirely up to each individual.
As we live with the awareness of unconditional love, we live INTER-dependently, not CO-dependently.
To experience Unconditional Love for Self and others, we need to take the time to know who we are. We need to spend time ALONE being COMPLETELY HONEST with ourselves. Admitting to ourselves what we are in fear of, what we like and what we dont like. Once you are honest with yourself, you can then dive even deeper within yourself. You can use any mode of healing that you like, if you feel you need that. Remember also, that healing is not for everyone. Some people are already living true to their hearts and they lead VERY spiritual lives. The sole purpose of healing is to live true to your heart and have peace. Period. As long as you are not causing yourself or anyone else harm, it is perfectly OK to want whatever it is you want. So if you are already doing that, then you dont need any healing. Healing is not something someone else convinces you of that you need. It is up to YOU to decide whether or not you would like to experience it. Living true to our heart we are living harmoniously. We are not angry, sad, or projecting our fears onto others. We are not looking at the world and seeing it as a place to "fix". We are looking at the world and seeing it as a place of complete beauty and joy with more than enough for everyone. We are finding creative solutions to our problems. We are creating the world according to our heart's true desires. The world is not "Missing" anything. It has everything it needs as do WE!
There are many methods of healing to choose from. How do we know if they are "real" or not? If it is taking you deeper into yourself, it is healing. If it is bringing you an INNER sense of peace or joy, which is not dependent on what is outside of you, it is healing. If it is causing you to fight, argue, or harm something or someone else, or to prove a point about whether something is "right or wrong" it is NOT healing.
Unconditional Love is not trying to PROVE itself, because it is too busy BEING itself. It has NOTHING to prove, it is its own LIVING PROOF. As YOU will also come to realize about yourself, the more you know and be yourself. You have to find this peace within YOURSELF first before you will ever be able to share it with others. How can you possibly share something of yourself which you are not even aware of that you already possess? You cant! UNTIL you find and have it for yourself FIRST and foremost. This does not mean you cannot share who you are, we are all sharing who we are, all the time. The question is WHAT are you sharing exactly? Is it coming from a space of unconditional love? Are you happy with yourself , who you are and what you are creating? Are you screaming at people or causing them harm emotionally or physically? Or is it coming from a space of fear? Or right vs. wrong? Which is still based on duality and not wholeness and completeness? These are some questions you can ask yourself, and that is how you have the discernment to know whether or not something is healing or not. Is it bringing you to a place of knowing yourself more? Of living more freely? Or is it causing you to shrink from life or to hate and judge others b/c they are different from you? Then it is not healing.
Love gives of itself without ever asking for anything in return. It does not need anything in return. It already has all it needs. Because it is whole and complete it does not search outside of itself for its completeness. It is whole and complete just by being itself.
Pay attention to your heart and your feelings. Pay attention to your life. It is ALWAYS telling you what you need. It is always guiding you in the direction of peace and harmony but it is up to YOU to make time to listen to that every day. And to give that to yourself everyday. It is not up to anyone else to decide what is wrong or right for you. And no one can ever take your inner peace from you unless you choose to give it away. You are always loved and supported unconditionally, if you weren't worthy of that, you wouldn't exist.
Peace, Love & Harmony as ONE,
Gia Simone
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